Kidney stone pain is widely considered one of the most severe types of pain a person can experience. Many women have described the sensation of passing a stone as being worse than childbirth. But what exactly causes this pain, where does it come from, and what options exist for relief?
How Kidney Stones Create Intense Pain
The urinary tract, functioning as the body’s plumbing system, consists of kidneys that produce urine, which flows through narrow tubes called ureters to the bladder. When a stone forms, it can block this flow, causing pressure to build up in the kidney. This pressure, combined with the ureter’s spasms as it attempts to push the stone along, creates excruciating pain.
The kidney itself is remarkably sensitive. Though it lacks traditional pain fibers, the surrounding tissue (the capsule) contains nerves that transmit intense signals when swollen by backed-up urine. The pain isn’t just localized; it can radiate from the back and side down into the groin, sometimes mimicking other conditions like appendicitis or intestinal inflammation.
The Shifting Nature of Kidney Stone Pain
The location of the pain changes as the stone moves through the urinary tract. Initially, it’s felt in the side or back as the stone enters the ureter. As it descends, the pain shifts to the lower abdomen or groin. In men, discomfort may even be felt at the tip of the penis.
The intensity fluctuates in cycles of 10–30 minutes, sometimes reaching a level where the sufferer cannot find a comfortable position. Once the stone reaches the bladder, symptoms can resemble a urinary tract infection: frequent, painful urination.
Why Some Stones Hurt More Than Others
The size of the kidney stone is not the sole determinant of pain. Although larger stones (up to pea-sized or even bigger) are more likely to cause blockages, even small stones can trigger intense pain due to the ureter’s narrow diameter. The degree of obstruction, rather than the stone’s absolute size, is the key factor.
What Relief Options Are Available?
Severe kidney stone pain often drives people to the emergency room. Doctors may prescribe pain medication, ranging from NSAIDs and acetaminophen to opioids, though milder options are often just as effective with fewer side effects. Alpha-blockers like tamsulosin can also help relax the ureter, facilitating stone passage and reducing spasms.
The duration of pain depends on how long it takes for the stone to pass. This can range from days to weeks, and imaging scans can track the stone’s progress. If the stone won’t pass on its own, medical intervention may be necessary to break it into smaller pieces or surgically remove it.
The bottom line: Kidney stone pain is a serious medical issue that can be debilitating. If you experience symptoms, seek prompt medical attention to explore pain relief options and ensure the stone passes safely.
Sources: Cleveland Clinic, Urology Care Foundation, National Kidney Foundation, Mayo Clinic.




















